The Self, and the Parts
In my 20 years of coaching I have studied and used many approaches.
The approach that works best for my clients is based on Internal Family Systems. IFS, developed by Dr Richard Schwartz is based on the idea of an ever-present ‘Self’. Your Self holds tremendous potential. When you are in ‘Self energy’ you feel calm, connected, courageous and creative.
Your ‘Parts’ are the beliefs, emotions, patterns, thoughts and sensations that co-exist with your Self. The generally arose with a distinct mission - to help the Self. So, an addicted Part arose to help with an underlying problem, say pain.
The key to this unconventional coaching is to allow you to
Distinguish between your Self and your Parts
Understand why Parts arose
Follow those stories to their origin
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Re-balance the relationships between the Self and the parts, so the Self energy can truly benefit from all that the parts bring to life
All Parts are welcome
You will understand your own ecosystem of Parts; and welcome even those Parts that you disliked.
